A Wife’s Secret to Happiness

What if the path to marital happiness is different than you think?

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When our plans for marriage improvement begin with
''If my husband would . . .'' or
''If, as a couple, we could . . .''
we're missing the secret.

Despite your man's flaws and failures, the Lord plans to bless your marriage through your husband. A Wife's Secret to Happiness shares eleven powerful, practical blessings that God wants to pour into your lap like sweet spiritual confetti, and the wifestyle habits that will attract or reject this divine provision.

No matter your title—from stay-at-home mom to business executive to ministry leader—you can celebrate God's role for you as a wife and learn how to:

  • Embrace vibrant marital roles without getting stuck in gender ruts
  • Reduce stress and busyness by building intimacy and strength
  • Boost love, support, and encouragement in your communication
  • Deepen your spousal connection so you won't feel alone
  • Restore dreams for your life with your spouse

Through thoughtful exploration of biblical promises, humorous hope-filled stories, and compelling testimonies, I share how God continually empowers my life as a submissive millennial wife, and encourage you to experience the same freedom!

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  • Jim DalyJim DalyPresident, Focus on the Family

    So many women struggle with their role as Christian wives, wondering how to achieve the marriage they’ve always dreamed of. With keen insight and compassion, Jen Weaver paints a realistic picture of biblical womanhood as it relates to marriage.

  • Andy LeeAndy LeeAuthor of "A Mary Like Me: Flawed Yet Called"

    A Wife’s Secret to Happiness  is the Christian marriage book for the millennial generation.

    Jen Weaver’s heart for Jesus filters through each word as she authentically shares what living and loving biblically can do for your marriage. A Wife’s Secret to Happiness  tackles the biblical principles that are shunned by our culture and demonstrates the beauty of these principles for our marriages today. Throughout the book, Jen weaves the story of her own marriage and others’ testimonies proving the wisdom of God’s instructions for this ordained relationship. It’s a must read for engaged and newly married women. A priceless gift.”

  • Robin BradyRobin BradyMA Psychology, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Registered Art Therapist

    Jen shares powerful insight into the opportunity for women to see their husbands through God’s eyes and to champion them to live in their God-given identities and destinies. She reveals how aligning our dreams and marriages with God invites an overflow of his abundance, favor, and fulfillment, far beyond what we could conceive or achieve on our own. Jen celebrates the power and relief of surrendering our best to see God’s best unfold in our marriages and lives, and empowers readers to do the same. A beautifully challenging read.

  • Ami EvansAmi EvansLicensed Professional Counselor, Owner of Ami Evans Counseling, Grapevine, Texas

    Jen Weaver has written an influential book for wives to know how to pursue and receive the blessings that God intends for them in marriage. She has a hilarious style of writing that’s engaging, while offering insight through her personal hardships. She doesn’t hesitate to share. Jen challenges wives to awaken their hearts to what God is doing in them and their marriage. I find her work to be relevant and encouraging, as both a wife and a counselor.

  • Amy FordAmy FordPresident of Embrace Grace, Inc., author of "A Bump in Life"

    Freedom and hope are found in these pages! Reading A Wife’s Secret to Happiness felt as though Jen had invited me to sit at her kitchen table and have coffee with her. Jen’s welcoming candor, humor, and courage to address real issues head on is refreshing. Whether you are struggling to stay strong in a broken marriage or you are living in wedded bliss, this book is for you!

  • Allan KelseyAllan KelseyAssociate Senior Pastor, Gateway Church

    As a man I want to know who let "The" Jen Weaver in on the secret thoughts and questions all men share about the mysteries related to our wives? Her insight into our world is very telling, and the way she casually demystifies it all in broad daylight is going to strongly help marriages. As a Pastor, I have to say I am very proud of Jen and the work, research, prayer, and reflection she has put into the book; it is filled with good writing, scriptural accuracy, healthy perspective, and positive encouragement.

  • Alli WorthingtonAlli WorthingtonAuthor of "Breaking Busy: Finding Peace and Purpose in A World of Crazy"

    Jen Weaver is absolutely wonderful. I love her heart for marriage and her message in A Wife’s Secret to Happiness. The combination of biblical wisdom and practical resources make it a must read!

  • Cassie ReidCassie ReidPhD, LPC-S, Lead Counselor, Cassie Reid Counseling

    This book is a beautiful symphony of the practical, spiritual, and applicable. Jen brilliantly weaves practical tips, including quizzes that test your "wifestyle," with honest examples, spiritual revelation, and realistic expectations. This book also contains amazing articles for application which only enhance the reading experience. As a therapist, many resources only contain pieces or parts that are useful; A Wife’s Secret to Happiness is the full package.  The reader is able to read any chapter in this book and gain valuable knowledge, insight, and practical application. I am excited to suggest it to my clients!

  • Kasey Van NormanKasey Van NormanBestselling author of "Named by God" and "Raw Faith"

    This book made me laugh, cry, consider, and challenge myself to celebrate the gift of marriage in new ways. Jen’s voice settles on you like a gracious friend across the kitchen table who loves you just because. Her wisdom, experience, and passion sink deep into the ink of every page, layering this book with the rich soil of God’s loving and life-giving plan for marriage.